In my working days, I dreaded the ice-breaker games or forms relating to personal goals, hobbies, or favorites. As I've alluded to several times before, other than being a wife and mother, work is what I did, and what I knew. Other than the very basic questions- and I mean basic- like "What's your favorite color?," having to categorize my life in the form of a list- my experiences, goals, favorites, my life beyond the 'office' - stressed me out.
And in a way, it still does. I mean it's easy to list what I need to get done for the day, pick up from the grocery store, ... the simple stuff. Yet when it comes to the "big stuff," it gets tough. The past few years- especially this past year- have been a time of major reflection on all areas of life. Blogging has served as a vehicle to not only express, but to develop a viewpoint, a style, a preference, in topics ranging from nail polish and t.v. to friendship and parenting.
And in a way, it still does. I mean it's easy to list what I need to get done for the day, pick up from the grocery store, ... the simple stuff. Yet when it comes to the "big stuff," it gets tough. The past few years- especially this past year- have been a time of major reflection on all areas of life. Blogging has served as a vehicle to not only express, but to develop a viewpoint, a style, a preference, in topics ranging from nail polish and t.v. to friendship and parenting.
But it's also served as a reminder of my incessant tendency (or flaw) to let life take over- even without a full-time job to stand in my way. Time and time again, Busyness becomes my list, my occupation, my existence. As much as I strive to live with purpose- with intention- the same ol' pattern resurfaces... days, weeks, months go by filled with stress, meaninglessness, busyness. I let it take the driver seat, while I become a passenger heading towards an undetermined location, or worse- an undesired one.
Simply put- list-making and prioritizing are no longer a nice-to-do on the rare occasion that I am not busy, but a MUST.
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I was so happy to find out that two of my good friends, Danielle, @ Ellinad Spir, and Emily, @ Notorious MLE are on the same wavelength. We decided to tackle this fear, and accomplish this goal together- with the help of this made-for-us planner- Listography 2011 Weekly Calendar... both organization and reflection in one fabulous book! At the beginning of each week, we will fill out our to-do's, along with the corresponding list, which we'll post every Wednesday. On my sidebar is the complete list of each week's topic- ranging (as it states on the back of the book) from autobiographical, to aspirational, to holiday-specific.
Do you want to join us?? If so, check out next week's topic, make your list, post it on Wednesday, and link up! If you're not up for every list, just pick and choose the ones you want to complete and post... and share em with us! A perfect way to get to know more about yourself and others, to ponder your past, to consider your future, to inspire and be inspired, and best of all- new blogger friends in the process! If you want to start this week, head over to Danielle's to read her list, and add a link to your list. Next week- on the 5th [topic: List books that made you cry.], the link will be over at Emily's (we're rotating)! No link? Just put your list in the comment section.
We're in San Jose for a week of holiday celebration and relaxation. I look forward to starting the new year in a calm, focused, and energized state of mind. HAPPY NEW YEAR to each and every one of you!
Do you want to join us?? If so, check out next week's topic, make your list, post it on Wednesday, and link up! If you're not up for every list, just pick and choose the ones you want to complete and post... and share em with us! A perfect way to get to know more about yourself and others, to ponder your past, to consider your future, to inspire and be inspired, and best of all- new blogger friends in the process! If you want to start this week, head over to Danielle's to read her list, and add a link to your list. Next week- on the 5th [topic: List books that made you cry.], the link will be over at Emily's (we're rotating)! No link? Just put your list in the comment section.
So, without further ado, my first list of the year...
We're in San Jose for a week of holiday celebration and relaxation. I look forward to starting the new year in a calm, focused, and energized state of mind. HAPPY NEW YEAR to each and every one of you!